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This plaque hangs on a wall in a corner of our dining room.
I love the message, “People need loving the most when they deserve it the least,” and I believe it is often true. Many times what we see as “bad” behavior is a person’s reaction to pain, fear, frustration, insecurity or even loneliness. If we can see beyond the surface and offer some love, kindness and understanding I believe we have the potential to change lives for the better.
I have thought several times that I should move that plaque to a place where it is more prominently displayed, because even though the words are engrained in my mind, it is not in a location where others are likely to read it. Today I decided to do one better – share this message here, where it can reach those who might visit our home and many, many more.
Thanks for reading and please feel free to share your thoughts in the comment box.
Sometimes when a person is being rude, instead of being rude back, saying something like “Bad day?” can turn the whole encounter around…
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Exactly! 🙂
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Such a lovely sentiment–thanks for sharing it:-)
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You’re welcome! Thanks for reading. 🙂
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Hey Ruth 🙂
You Have been complimented 🙂
https://aguycalledbloke.blog/2020/01/19/gifting-the-compliment-3/
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Thank you so much Rory! Much appreciated. 🙂
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Always a pleasure 🙂
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What a great reminder! I love this! I’ve learned that a lot of times when people aren’t very lovable they are hurting in some way. We never know what they are going through.
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Exactly Michelle. A little compassion can go a long way. 🙂
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What a great one to have hanging up, and so true ♥
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Indeed!!! 🙂
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Yes, sometimes people fall from grace and need support along the way. I think your sign should be in everyone’s home Ruth, in a prominent place, and if not hanging in their home, engrained in their mind.
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I think this is a lesson we need to learn when young, When I hear stories about bullying I often wonder if the situation could be handled better by trying to understand “the bully” and show them some love and kindness.
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That could be too Ruth. I don’t think parents spend enough time with their children these days and thus they are left on their own and to their own devices (both electronic or otherwise). I don’t have TV but listen to WWJ AM 950 and follow it and Click on Detroit on Facebook. It seems to me that every day a teenager goes missing. Same thing on the crime site I follow for my City and the Downriver communities. I notice that nine times out of ten it is because the parents and the kid do not see eye to eye on “rules” or “punishment”. I guess when I was growing up, if your parents said “jump” you asked how high and didn’t question it.
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It seems the world is changing so quickly and not for the better I’m sad to say.
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Yes, unfortunately that is true. I constantly wish I was born in an earlier era.
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That actually would be awesome on a tee shirt. Maybe if I hadn’t taken the cricut to Tennessee…….
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Maybe when you make the move…
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a beautiful message thanks for sharing
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You’re welcome! Thanks for reading. 🙂
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I love the message, Ruth! Such a fabulous message! Thanks for sharing it! ❤ 😀 xoxo
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It is a great reminder, isn’t it Carol Anne? You are welcome. 🙂
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Definitely Ruth, I totally think so 🙂
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A great reminder to never give up on our loved ones (and others).
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I generally don’t use the word “never” but in this case I think it applies.
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You are easy to love.
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Aww – you are so sweet.
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