Gangly and Awkward – Our Perfect Christmas Tree

It was sunny but cold Saturday when we went to the farm to cut our Christmas tree. Although having snow in the air and/or on the ground might have made the event more festive I was thankful for the ease of not having to trudge into the field though several inches of the white stuff. It was also nice that we did not have to clean up puddles of melted snow after setting up the tree in the living room.

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This is our third year of cutting a tree from our farm for a Christmas tree. When we bought the property in 2011 it had absolutely no evergreens growing on it. So in the spring of 2012 we bought 50 12-18 inch spruce seedlings (twigs) from our local Conservation District spring tree sale. When our trees arrived we had no idea where we were going to plant them all so we made a nursery area in our main garden. At least the trees were in soil and could grow there until we decided where their permanent home(s) would be. This also made it simple to care for them especially since it was a very dry summer and we spent much time watering.

By fall the twigs that we had planted had begun to take shape and turned into small trees. We then planted them along the north and east sides of the back field where we hoped they would eventually grow large enough to act as wind blocks and provide privacy. We have continued to nurture these trees, fencing them in the winter to protect against deer, mowing around them so they have not been choked out by weeds and watering them during extreme dry spells. Despite our best efforts we have lost some. Each year we order more seedlings to replace ones that we have lost and to increase the spruce evergreen population on the farm.

2016 was the first year we cut our own Christmas tree. Life had changed. The girls were no longer living at home. They had grown up and moved out. Some were married, some were in college, some were working and I had to accept that our days of the girls and I all getting together to put up a tree were over. It made me sad. Life had changed in another way. My husband who had always worked a job that took him away from home for weeks or months at a time and often missed the holidays with the family, was no longer working that job. He was home for the holidays. This made me happy. To help cheer me up he suggested we start something new – make Christmas ours – by cutting a Christmas tree that we had grown on our farm. I loved it.

I think it was in September this year when my husband pointed out the tree he thought we should cut and I agreed it was a good choice. It was a the right size since we set it up on the coffee table and it had a nice straight trunk. It’s not exactly picture perfect and probably not a tree I would have picked out had we gone to a place to purchase a tree. It has an awkward shape and the braches are gangly and reaching out in all directions, but I am delighted that this tree is a product of our farm.

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When we had the tree set up my husband helped me put the lights on the tree and the Angel on top, then I brought out my collection of Snow Angel ornaments to adorn the tree.

My Snow Angel ornaments are small angels each having a different pose and a tag attached that assigns them as a  different blessing. There are Blessing of Love, Blessing of Hope, Blessing of Generosity, Blessing of Playfulness… I have 36 of them in all.

When the girls lived at home and we decorated the tree together I would take out each Snow Angel, read the tag and assign it to a specific daughter to hang on the tree. They would read the tag out loud and everyone would talk and sometimes laugh about why I gave that particular ornament to that daughter. Sometimes it was a characteristic that I admired about that daughter and sometimes I thought that daughter may have needed more of that particular blessing. At times it was difficult to decide and the blessings were given out randomly. This activity was one we enjoyed year after year.

For the past two years, with the girls not being there to help decorate the tree, I had left the Snow Angels packed away but this year, I am not sure why, but I decided to bring them out.

As I hung the ornaments on those gangly braches that reached in all directions I noticed how easy it was for the ornament to hang freely, something I struggle with when decorating a “perfectly shaped” tree with nicely tapered branches. Thus increased my appreciation for this awkward looking tree.

The more I look at it the more beautiful it becomes. I see this tree as representative of our life. Much like this tree our family has grown and our lives have changed in the past 6 years. We have branched out in all different directions and each branch bears blessings. Yet like this tree each branch stems from and is supported by the same trunk. It binds us together. Our trunk is love – our trunk is Christ.

 

 

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Merry Christmas!

 

36 thoughts on “Gangly and Awkward – Our Perfect Christmas Tree

  1. When living in CT, 69-88 we always cut our own tree, it was a great all day event for us our kids and cousins. Our first tree 1965 was the top of my grandmother’s tree which had to be cut to fit in the room. A wine bottle served as the stand and it sported a lone red ball. It was a great tree, a great Christmas and 53 years later we still remember it. Merry Christmas from Maryland’s Eastern Shore.

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    1. What great memories – thank you for sharing them. My husband and I have mentioned that ‘maybe someday our children and grand children will come to the farm and cut their Christmas trees’. Merry Christmas from Michigan!

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      1. Must also mention son-in-law grew up in Bay City, parents and many relatives still there. Our former Black Lab, a loyalist for 13 years was named Trooper, small world. Do you soap the windows on All Hallows Eve? Peace!

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      2. Does your S-I-L use his hand as a map to show people here he is from? LOL.
        Our Trooper is nearly 10 years old – a pound puppy and certainly a loyal friend.
        LOL. I haven’t soaped windows since I was a teenager. As a soap maker I appreciate the value of soap. It’s NOT good for windows. 🙂

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  2. What a lovely idea to cut your own tree from your own farm to mark a new chapter of your lives and make Christmas your own. I think ‘perfectly imperfect’ applies to your ‘gangly and awkward’ tree – it’s lovely and has far more compassion, thought and love attached to it than a store-bought or ready cut tree. I also love that the Snow Angels have made a sweet return this year. What a beautiful post! 🙂
    Caz xx

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  3. A wonderful post Ruth! I can so relate to traditions changing. I miss my boys everyday and don’t know if I’ll see them for Christmas… it’s such a good idea to start new traditions and we are trying to do those things here too! I love your tree! 🎄

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  4. Your tree is special just like you Ruth – it is cheery and how exciting to cut a tree for Christmas that you have planted with your own hands and nurtured. Merry Christmas and best wishes for the coming year to you and yours Ruth.

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  5. Have a very blessed and Merry Christmas. I know the feeling of kids leaving but mine was three sons. Sometimes we get together for holidays but mostly in summer when boys like to have fun. I used to love putting up the tallest tree my son’s could find for our 16′ ceiling area. It was the best. So yes any tree that makes us remember our past family times are so worth it no matter what the tree looks like. I love yours!!!

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    1. Hi Rebecca. So glad you stopped by. It seems a mixed blessing when the kids grow up and move out on their own. It is what we work and hope and pray for so many years and then when it happens and they are not there all the time you miss them and the way things were. I hope you have a VERY Merry Christmas as well.

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    1. Thank you! Last year I had a friend tell me that they went to a tree farm and cut their tree. Her two male dogs kept peeing on it. I was glad that we had ours up on the table. Our “boys” always pee on the trees at the farm – wouldn’t want them to get confused. LOL. I hope you have a wonderful Christmas!

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    1. Thank you Michelle. When we purchased our land our goal we that it would provide for us. It is now doing so in many ways – foods we grow, chickens that give us eggs, bees for honey, wax and pollination, trees we cut for firewood and now even our Christmas trees. We are blessed. I wish you and your family a very Merry Christmas!

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