When Life Threw Me Curve Ball

I began writing this piece about a year ago. It has been sitting in my drafts folder and I have gone back to it a few times to work on it. Now, when along with so many people around the world, life has again thrown me a curve I feel it is important to finish and publish the piece.


When Life Throws A Curve

It happens to the best of us right? You know how that happens – you are standing at the plate ready for the pitch. The pitch is thrown and with your eye on the ball you notice it is coming outside the strike zone. You relax a little – then suddenly the ball is right there, right where it should be. You are caught off guard. What do you do???

After thinking about how my whole situation played out, here is what I realized.

Even though I was not as prepared as I could have been I still might be able to take a swing at the ball. Perhaps I would hit the ball anyway and even if I didn’t a strike is a strike whether I swung and missed or just let that ball pass by. A strike doesn’t really matter that much. Even if I strike out it really doesn’t matter that much as long as I do the best I can do.

This is why.

My life, just like baseball, is a team sport. If I strike out there will be another batter stepping up to the plate to give it their best shot. Even if my strike made the last out in the ninth inning, causing my team to lose the game, there is going to be another game. Even if it is the final game of the season, there is going to be another season.

In the game of life the only way I lose is to quit the game.

That may be a bold statement but I can say with confidence that I play on a winning team. Let me introduce them.

First and foremost is my coach, or rather my coaching team, The Father, Son and Holy Spirit. I have a multi-lifetime contract with this coach. It doesn’t get any better than that! He will be with me throughout my life on earth and when that has finished He has reserved a spot in Heaven for me. I couldn’t ask for a better coach. He makes sure all of my needs are met and when I mess up he forgives my errors.

I often turn to Him for strength and wisdom and in my 50+ years on earth He has never let me down.

Next is my Co-captain. We promised to love, honor and cherish, through good and bad times until death do us part.  We have kept this commitment each and every day. We work together and make decisions together to make sure “our team” is doing it’s best and when one of us is weak the other steps up.

Other players on the team include my sisters who I can always count on to be there in my time of need, my daughters, dad and other family members and friends. People who ask if there is anything they can do to help, offer encouraging words or pray for or with me.

Doubtless many who will read this today are feeling that life has thrown them a curve. Some of you may have held your stance and even hit the ball out of the park while others are still standing there in a daze wondering what just happened. Either way the question I have is are you playing on a winning team? If not then you may want to talk to my coach. He is always looking for new recruits.

I am sure this post will leave you wondering what it was that initially prompted me to write this and I’m not going to leave you guessing. In Decenber of 2018, after several months of undergoing medical tests, I was diagnosed with Parkinson’s disease. Even though some of my symptoms fit the diagnosis I was shocked when I heard the words. It was in the first few weeks after being dianosed that I realized that I was not in this alone but I was “playing on a winning team”. While I have not had any medical treatment for my condition I can honesty say that I feel better today than I did during the time leading up to my diagnosis. In future posts I intend to share some of the things I have been doing to manage my condition/life.

While I always welcome your comments and encourage you to do so but I will ask that you do not feel sorry for me because I do not feel sorry for myself. 

Thanks for reading. Be well and breath deep.







24 thoughts on “When Life Threw Me Curve Ball

  1. You are a strong woman and an admirable one Ruth – you soldier on, keeping a very busy schedule, immersed in a load of projects and never falter – that is how I see you and I am sure the others in this forum do too. We will always wish the very best for you.

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    1. Thank you Linda but honestly I can’t take all the credit. I get much strength and support from “my team”.
      My blog and readers have been a blessing as one of the symptoms that I was experiencing was having difficulty expressing myself both verbally and through writing. The words were there but at times it felt like they were trapped in my head. After making some life style changes it did begin getting better but it takes me longer than it used to to write a post. I decided to do my “55 Things” series as a way to challenge myself to keep writing. As you know having people read and comment is most encouraging and motivating so I am most grateful for those who do – especially you Linda – you are my top commenter and your encouragement means a lot.
      Happy Easter My Friend.

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      1. Well, I would never have known of your struggles Ruth and I am sure no one else would have either. It is good doing the “55 Things” series as they prompt you to keep posting and challenge yourself. Yes, people reading and commenting is the best part of blogging – I never had that interaction until 4 1/2 years into blogging – it was a whole revelation. That is why, in part, I get a little rattled when I publish a post like I did yesterday and it did not go to Reader. Grrr. It took a lot of time to prepare it and it showed up 18 hours later and after multiple e-mails to WordPress. Thank you for your kind words Ruth. Happy Easter to you, my Michigan and blogging friend.

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  2. No pity here….what I do have is a verse for you..
    Hebrews 12:1 1Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us,
    You are running the race and running it well!

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